Now you're just asking questions that don't have anything to do with the subject of this thread nor the original posting to this thread. (This thread has really ceased to be useful and should probably be locked/closed.)
Beyond that, there have been volumes written about what you're trying to answer.
A couple of recommendations:
Get a book or two or ten from a library
Then come back with specific questions.
"The single biggest problem in communication is the illusion that it has taken place."
-George Bernard Shaw, Irish playwright and Nobel Prize winner, 1856-1950