I tried recording again and it worked. I think I was having trouble with Test Advantage not starting. I notice that I usually have to run at least one line of code that uses TA before the Spy starts showing the objects correctly.
.ActivateNode ( I have to see what it is at work. I think this is the one that works.)
It uses a text string such as
.RightClick works the sameway.
Once the recording started working, I could figure out how to use it.
I'm not sure what the index and key is about.
I think that there is also a way to tell Infragistics to use indexes instead of strings. I'm expecting that if I find out how to do this, that I can use recording and see the pattern this way also.